Dressing Code – DO’s and DONT’s

In many areas of life dress code has changed radically in the recent years. However, the dress code for funerals hasn’t changed much over the years.
When choosing to clothe for a funeral note that despite your preferences the occasion is not about you but about paying respect to the deceased through appropriate clothing and appropriate behavior.

The grieving relatives are also appreciative when they see that a guest has carefully chosen his clothes for the memorial service or funeral. This also shows that your concerns were shoved aside due to the unfortunate occasion.

Wearing Black at funerals

Black or other shades of dark color is still the most common and appropriate choice. Black is seen as a sign of mourning and is therefore appropriate for a funeral. Also, shoes, stockings and ties
should have dark tones.

The shirt or blouse under the jacket may be white as a contrast. Headgear such as baseball hats, short sleeves and shorts should be avoided. Also on the wearing of jeans should be waived.

Dress code for Children

Mourning clothing for children should also be appropriate for the occasion. Usually, children are not expected to buy black clothing for the funeral. Discreet or muted colors are still applicable. This means that even for children, bright colors and funny prints should be avoided.

Wearing jewelry at a funeral

In general, the maxim at funerals is: less is more. The bereaved relatives can regard striking or colorful jewelry as an unwanted expression of self. It is, therefore, advisable to use simple and subtle jewelry.

Make-up and hairstyles can also be worn discreetly. Best for a funeral is an inconspicuous day make-up and a well-groomed hairstyle.
In some instances, the mourners clothe themselves colorfully at a funeral. This is usually the case when the deceased has expressly desired this during his lifetime.
If the deceased was a member of a club or a uniform in his professional life, clubmates or colleagues would often wear them to the funeral. This expresses the respect and the attachment to the dead, while at the same time portraying their passion.